Hello everyone, I am finding it harder to come to this site. I feel bad because so many people here have helped me so much and I wish I could return the favor to others that come here like I did three years ago so DESPRATE for help. But school has kept me busy and my R seems to be getting better and better every day. And when you don’t have problems…. Well ………….. I HAVE WEATHERED THE STORM…. I have come out on the other side of that black hole….Advice to anyone out there…. Some relationships no matter what you do are never meant to be. No matter what you do your spouses will never come back. BUT….. If there is the smallest chance…. The little ray of hope… DO NOT GIVE UP….it takes time…. Got to get back to homework right now but let me leave you with this….. Three years ago I truly believed that my wife was ready to take off with the OM. I was afraid when I went in to surgery to put her name down as the person who would decide to “pull the plug” if something went wrong because I really thought she wanted me out of the way so she could be with the OM.. Last night right after I went to bed and was watching T.V in OUR bedroom… she came in and asked me if I wanted some apple cake that she just made. I told her “ya sure I get up and have some” she said “NO you don’t have to get up… I will bring you some”… and she did…. Desert in bed…… does it get any better than this?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
