Gatsby, even when they're signed its not over! That was my turning point! Lol! Now H says he never took them back from me bc he knew he didn't want it. Said he knew when he gave them to me.
It is strange their perspective on things... My H says he filed bc I said we either get divorced or you work things out (which I did, but not thinking he would file) but I can't take the full blame. Maybe only 25%. Lol.
But as hard as it may be. Just be patient... Low expectations... Focus on you and bub... He'll come around when he is ready. Create a warm welcoming, non hostile environment. He'll find his way back! At least I think he will.
