Thanks Stronger your positive view of your life now does help. It is good to be reminded that however these situations turn out we can go on to live happy lives - if we work on ourselves and GAL.
I'm going to try to work on that list of things to work on FOR ME. At the moment I'm a bit stuck on that. I have hobbies I will get active in again but I also want to try something new, just don't know what yet.
I won't drop his number from my phone as there's still a lot of practical stuff to work out but I will work really hard on dropping contact unless it's strictly about the practical stuff
Me: 40 H: 39 no kids together 8 years married 6 years bomb: 31 Aug 10