I gave up...filed for D

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I'm sorry you and Mrs O didn't make it - I thought you might have pulled through.

Please don't EVER step out on your children's lives...seriously. Do not ever think that way! Your children need a father no matter what is going on between you and your wife/x.

Ya know O - I really thought you were changing...I saw you (at first) kind of a cold man...I saw you progress into a more caring man and I thought your wife was seeing that. I'm so sorry you guys are now separated.

I don't think of what my stbxH has done in the "past" as the past. I think of it just as what it is. It makes me ill. I do not feel the need to attack but I will defend me and my kids - we didn't deserve this - we didn't ask for this - he did. He will get what he wants - a single and free life with no responsibility...I'll gladly take it...my kids' love and respect is WORTH it.

Luv