Me neither, yes you are correct, they each keep pushing and pulling, like a tug of war, at some point they both need to let each other go and regroup, to see if they can work on things in the future.

He pulls because he is impatient like many guys, she pulls because she wants him to give into her wants for financial support. When John pushes her away, she says ILY and he feels a moment of "love" between them.

I have commented on this thread many times, and this thread is in the same "status quo" as it was 2 months ago.