TH,

Thanks! I knew I could count on your clarity and eloquence. I'm at the point that I am okay and have let go enough that my motive is not to get my W back, but to take care of myself.

Sure showing confidence and taking the lead might intrigue the W, but in the end is she really worth the hassle that I am going through? I know I caused the hurt that is the underlying reason for my sitch, but as John28 said a few weeks ago I can't blame myself entirely...it does take two to make a M work.

I will send the email out Friday AM. Talk with one more L so that I get a better feel than I had with the one I spoke with today. I will file early next week.