Okay since my last meeting with my L I think I needa new approach to ensure that she keeps her word on not wanting anything financially. Here is the email that I plan to send my W on Friday.
Dear W,
Although, I would like to work on our M, I understand that this is not what you want. I have spoken with several mediators and L and they all agree that the best approach for a uncontested D is that I would file and we would work with one L to dissolve the M. I will retain the L and have the documents prepared. You can work with the L that In retain to sechedule when you would be served the papers. If this is okay with you let me know and I will begin the process.