Good evening fellow DB friends. Wanted to give everyone an update on my sitch. I have my moments of sadness, but not so much where I am overcome by grief. I thank this forum for that...

My H called me today (it has been a couple of days). He seemed distant and I asked if he was okay. He said: "with our situation, I don't want to say the wrong thing". I am not sure what this meant and didn't pursue it, but I wonder if he is rethinking rebuilding the marriage.

He says he wants me to talk everyday (either through mail or phone calls); but when we talk, it is always all non-R talk. He seems incredibly sad and has said he wishes he were home. He said he is not able to smile or laugh until when or if he comes home. He is saying he loves me and misses me, but I have been worried. Is his and my behavior normal?


OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."