So I am speaking with my L and he recommends that I try and salvage my M by writing my W or seeing her at work and telling her that I want to work on our M. I told him in so many words that I have w/o trying to pursue or look needy. And if I go to her work she would probably have me arrested for stalking or something.
He told me that the pre-nup isn't as iron clad as he thought and that if my W gets a L she could take some of my pension, 401K and savings as well as alimony. So much for pre-nups...must be another part of the D biz. I really got a strange vibe from him tonight.
Based on my L suggetsion if I can't save the M then I need to file first and tell my W that the two of us can work with him. That is if she is serious about not wanting anything from me financially....a really strange meeting today...unsettling
