There is nowhere to "go" necessarily. Have you made your list of things you want to work on FOR YOU and hobbies and such? The best thing you can do right now, is do things for you and only you. Also maybe drop his number out of your phone I don't know if this will help or not but I'm divorced now. However, the two or three weeks before Ex-H and I finalized he had a freak out and tried to come home. Over and over. I said no. It was just too late. I had moved on and was ready for life 100% without him. But I could have saved the marriage at that time IF I had wanted. I didn't. So what was I doing differently when H wanted to come home? I was 100% living for me. I didn't call or text him anymore unless it was child related, we have one son. I went out and got me a damn good life and I lived it. I was really truly GALing my hear out. We're best friends again though, which I love.
