Originally Posted By: Allen A
You are the best one to come up with consequences... They are specific to your situation.

YOU know what you can do better than any of us.

Consequences are pretty much anything that causes your husband's life more difficulty.

You want to minimize the convenience of separation...

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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