Well, I had a text message reply from H. He acknowledged there were some good times in our marriage but he doesn't think it would be a good idea for either of us in the long run if we were to try to get back together, so no he doesn't want to work on us anymore. Guess it's not really a surprise he feels like that right now. I replied ok, thanks for replying, have a good weekend (I know he is going out of town for a seminar this weekend).
I'm feeling really lost - where I go from here I don't know.
Me: 40 H: 39 no kids together 8 years married 6 years bomb: 31 Aug 10