Eric, my sweet friend, you are going to be ok. I know it without a doubt.
I hear you on the house thing and the finding a place to live thing and the, well you get the picture. At least you have a job, right?
But Pei is right, the memories are in our hearts. No one can take them away from us.
And you never know what the future holds or how it will unfold. So, just let it happen and maybe one day you and your wife can have a decent working relationship.
You just keep walking this journey. You hold your head up high, be proud of how you acted and how much you've learned and grown.
Take each day as it comes. Look it right in the eye and live it!