When your spouse doesn't fight with you

[KellBell0820]

This is something I wonder about too. Me and H don't fight, we've never really fought and when we did it was resolved fairly quickly and easily (or so we thought I guess). The only thing he's gotten angry with me about is signing these bogus papers he's had drawn up, but since I told him I know about his OW, he hasn't even pushed that. I won't say he seems happier though, he's just emotionless since coming home. Even when he's "happy" it's like there's nothing there, not like he used to be. Your H and mine sound a lot like in the "being done" area though. My H is stubborn, once he has his mind set, that's it. So it's hard to think that because he's set on this D, whether he realizes it's right, wrong, etc, he'll still go through with it.