New here but learning slowly. Advice appreciated

[Albuquerque]

Update on me.

Tomorrow is my 16th anniversary. I had planned a spa day, but I couldn't get an appt in, so TODAY was my spa day and it was quite enjoyable. Tomorrow, I plan to spend all afternoon at the beach for some alone time. May read, may walk, may swim. Who knows. Then in the evening, I've already planned to take D out to the Melting Pot for some divine dessert (as a reward for some good school work).
My H is currently in the midwest doing contract work and probably spending time with OW. It's hard not to have my mind continuously thinking about all the anniversaries of the past and how different this one is. What a difference a year makes. But it also gives me hope for the future. Whatever happens, I'm sure next year won't be quite so painful. Things are still a little too raw right now. I will continue working on me.