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Holy Cow!! On a whim I went to get my hair cut. I have gone to the same place down the street maybe 3 times. As I am talking to the guy cutting my hair he starts asking what my husband does, oh, how long have I been divorced, do I date...then he asked me out!! Flattering but this guys doesn't even talk to me just uh huh several times when I tell him how I want it trimmed.

2 guys today. Craziness!!

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...and....? did you say yes? of course you did...right?


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Ughhh, no. I am not attracted to this guy at all. He seems to be quite a bit older. I mean he didn't hardly say two words to me until he found out that I wasn't married.

Call me crazy but I don't want to go down a dead end just to say I had a date. If the guy maybe had chatted with me more before and I felt as if there was something we would even talk about, besides my hair, maybe. As it stands no.

Start throwing the wood.

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LOL Half the point of a first date with someone you don't already know is to talk and see if you have anything in common silly!


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I agree - I don't want to date just to date.

The idea is appealing though to have a boyfriend that could blow out your hair each day for free! LOL!

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Trying to find the finest 4x4 I have in my stock here...

Just to give him the benefit of the doubt perhaps he didn't say much earlier because he thinks its disrespectful to shoot the sh*t with his female customers. He probably doesn't want to come across like the guys from the MsTaken video smile

It's hard being a guy- you're darned if you do it you're darned if you don't lol

But I hear you on the no-attraction part and going down a dead end road.

Well, still...enjoy getting asked out!


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The idea is appealing though to have a boyfriend that could blow out your hair each day for free! LOL!


Awww geez this is SOOOOOO tempting to apply to a girlfriend who would....oh hell, nevermind! blush whistle

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I kid around with people all the time and I don't think of it as flirting. If he really was interested even last spring he could have asked me a little about myself, told me a little about himself without crossing the line.

If I was attracted to him or felt something(anything!) I might have thought more and maybe said yes. Nothing there people. Zero. Nada. However, I am flattered and I did thank him for asking me. I wasn't rude in the slightest.

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Now you guys have me all red, at work even! blush


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