Sol - I am not handling all of this that great, lol! I felt rage when I read that e-mail he sent me. And I can honestly say I have shed some tears this week - it's been stressful.
If he doesn't get it by now then I doubt he will. I'm not sure why it's so puzzling to ANY man that has had a three year affair why their W just isn't cool with things.... my word.
Coach - I'm not 100% on this attny. We went there first because my sister works with the partner of one of the attnys. It was a starting point but once we all settle down I guess we will have to try once again to have a discussion to see where we are all at. My mom and sister did like him - we'll see. I don't have to like him but I do have to be able to communicate with him. I think part of the problem is I am very used to working w/my divorce attny and his staff and they are MUCH different.