Originally Posted By: kissak
Its bad to say, but he never has any interest in doing things with my daughter. He never goes to her school events. He is always tired or too busy. She sees this and it hurts her, he doesn't see it at all.

Kissak, I don't think I've posted to you before, but I do read along. I'm so sorry for what you're going through right now.

I see that your D is an adolescent. Was your H always so disinterested in doing things with her, or is this a recent development? I ask because my H began to pull away from the family and me when my D's were about that age and beginning to develop. I often wonder if their burgeoning womanhood had anything to do with his withdrawal from us.


M 65
H 64
T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08
Two Ds

Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man