Don't let that get to you..and don't let your guard down no matter what.

My W started to drop the shields just a smidgen around the day I was served. Its not that we were at the very beginning of talking and she did that. It just so happen it took a month for the D papers to arrive.It was bad timing.
I never let it get to me, as from day one I knew they would come and I already accepted it. This one hurdle is out the way. Get you a lawyer and protect yourself. Let the L's work it out, while you continue to work on getting back together. Still continue to GAL and 180.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10