Cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it

[ImprovedRomeo]

Kat, thanks kat. Yes she probably wanted to put a deposit down somewhere but either she's found the money since or there's a change in plans again. I don't really know and don't care all that much. I do want to tell her to keep me in the loop since DD's concerened.

Jeff, it's not that I'm not detached I'm trying to make sense of what she's planning to do. In fact, whenever she's turned 'nice' all of a sudden she's done some very damaging things in the background and dropped bombs on me when I least expected them.

CG, I'm with you on that agreement but I just really doubt she'll take it. But we'll see, you can some delay the inevitable but not prevent it. Delaying does nothing in this case so it might as well be now.

Sol, she took a very low paying job after filing for separation. She was unemployed for just over a year before she filed.