At some point YOU have to decide what you will let HIM do to you.
YOU decide whether to be a victim.
Read this ^^^^ again...and then again...and then again....and then again....
You are carrying a baby right now and so you want to remain as calm as you can - take this time (and I have said this to you...oh...15 times) and write down what YOU want for YOUR life.
Do you want to feel like chit? No - then choose NOT to.
Do you want to worry about OW? No - then choose NOT to.
Do you want YOUR H back? YES - Then drop the rope.. let go...what ever the f*ck ya wanna call it.
Protect yourself...no one BUT YOU will. It is after all YOUR life. It is your life to live, not YOUR H's to destroy.
Read Grit's post again..
So...are you a victim?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
