Thanks G, like you said... You never know how you are going to react until you are there. I know I did the right thing, but it still feels sh%^^y. But I gotta think longer term right? BTW do you have your sitch posted somewhere?
Me 40 W. 38 S. 17 S. 14 S. 12 Married 15yrs "together" 19 Bomb Dropped Aug 8/07 I moved out Sept 09 OM confirmed July 10 She filed D Oct 18/10
It used to be in my sig and dissapeared for some reason. I think I fixed it.
I had a jealousy thread up when I first started posting here and you can see it in my posting history if you want to read what others have told me about jealousy.
As for me, I pretty much am out of my wife's life. I do see her driving around town sometimes. I know that she has another high school renunion dance coming up this October and I will try not to think about what she will be doing down there when she goes.
But she is a single woman and it should not be my concern. Hell I even have a GF myself now so I am a bit of a hypocrit in that regard.
Being single is not something I wanted but I am trying to make the best of it. It will come for you as well in time. Things will get better for you. Trust me on that.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me