Until she starts saying please and thank you I would treat her as you would a grocery clerk.
As you had planned some time ago present her with one final offer again. Be clear this is the last one, no negotiating and she has limited time to accept it. Your court date is coming soon and her options are narrowing. And I would not budge on the legal fees. She pays hers and yours if she chooses not to accept it. While her dreams are lovely nobody is passing out free condos (if so, please add me to the list to get one!).
If her living situation is fine why is she asking you for money to move because she doesn't have a place to live? IMO that is the question that needs to be asked.
As my attny says... keep your e-mail box open. They send gold via e-mail.
Why does she so frequently pop up when you are with your daughter? IMO it's for face time and is nothing more than a power move.
It's too bad if she's pissed and maybe her being pisses isn't all that bad. It's no fun to realize the money faucet is being turned off and IMO the only way for that to stop is to get your agreement in place ASAP!