Don't text him anymore. Keep your cards close to your chest but definitely if he sends you more texts and bugs you then a simple txt setting a boundary will do: "H: no more texting or calling. Please communicate through my L"
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again