Hi Antlers, I am sad for the pain & loss you are experiencing. It sounds like taking this financial hit is even more of a double whammy.
I am happy for you about the custody of your son and have hope that the baby steps you are taking with your daughter will bear fruit soon. It sounds like from the comments from the GAL that your daughter is aware of what your XW is doing to manipulate them.
Thinking of you & wishing you peace. Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
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