Late last night she called my phone, I didn't answer. She left a non-chalant vm:
"Hey...I'm just driving home from xyz, was wondering if DD was still up so I could talk to her. Well if she is can you guys call me back if not that's fine"
what?? really? we're like buddies again? That's the scary part how she can be so vindictive and cruel behind the scenes but on the surface she's like the sweetest thing on earth.
So I sent her this email response (to her email) last night:
"It's not ok for DD to be bounced around all over the place which is what we were trying to avoid with the new schedule. The school, the schedule, the friends and now yet another house/neighborhood all in the same month? She needs stability in her life, this much change from every direction for a little kid is traumatizing. It's only fair to her- but do what you want to do..."
Her response:
"I'll pick DD up after school on Monday as planned. There is nothing wrong with my living situation.
Have your lawyer present the offer to my lawyer."
Then this morning I was dropping DD off at school (who for the first time since starting school cried when I was leaving ) guess who showed up? STBXW. Started talking to me about how she met DD's teacher yesterday and how she's learning this and that. I told her DD was crying a bit ago but she's ok now. She said 'oh ok I'll go in then, I have time'. Then I left. I mean this woman would have a hard time waking up at 9AM to save her life. So why did she stop by there at 7:15AM? Weird.
I'm trying to move my L's appt up from Wed to tomorrow to see what can be done. I just get the feelings she's going to reject the settlement offer and now that she is pissed might not be a good time to present the offer? I realize she needs money so she should be eager but I doubt she will.
She's also being careful about what she writes in emails...notice how she said 'there's nothing wrong with my living situation'- I know she's being coached.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
) guess who showed up? STBXW. Started talking to me about how she met DD's teacher yesterday and how she's learning this and that. I told her DD was crying a bit ago but she's ok now. She said 'oh ok I'll go in then, I have time'. Then I left. I mean this woman would have a hard time waking up at 9AM to save her life. So why did she stop by there at 7:15AM? Weird.
