Wow - lowe / it sounds as if you handled it perfectly. I have been thinking recently that if I ever had the chance to piece that using something like a structured separation might be a good first step - where it was slow enough for me to maintain my balance.
Good luck!
Thanks Irish.
In my case the separation allowed me to grow as an individual and that made me attractive to FWW. My biggest problem is I overanalyze every little thing instead of looking at the big picture. I like who I've grown into...remember, the smallest consistent change.
The whole chain of events was just mind boggling. At one point I'm thinking there is no way we are going to reconcile so just concentrate on co-parenting...then 24 hours later...BAM...here we are.
We had a conflict last night but we have since worked through it...
Last edited by loweinsd51; 09/16/1003:20 PM.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
