Its funny because I'm not in fact desperate for a baby, in fact the thought of all those years of childcare in front of me when I am already nearly 40 kind of scares me! But I love H and I want US to have a baby, for us, for our R and for him, as he would make a great Dad and wants to be a Dad. And I'd be a great Mum smile

Interesting tale Kat, everyone says the same.. it happens as soon as you let go and stop trying. Like how people often fall pg naturally once they start getting IVF treatment after years of infertility. We're on a bit of a medical treadmill at the moment as we're grabbing all the free help until my 40th in March..then we have to start paying. From that point, I think I will let go a bit.

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