Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Is it the passage of TIME that makes you entitled to be a victim?

Or the attrocity of HIM taking OW away while you're pregnant?

I am not saying this stuff doesn't hurt and that you shouldn't feel pain.

At some point YOU have to decide what you will let HIM do to you.

YOU decide whether to be a victim.

We have a little saying (or I do)

There are no victims, only volunteers.

You have to decide to change this 2.

Only you can do it. And you CAN do it.


Sweetie, I get it ... this is rough. But Grit speaks the truth.

My question ... Have you been surviving? Or existing?

You can do this, you really can. Now it's up to you to choose to ...

What are you going to do for you today?

PEI

Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc