WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

[TimeHeals]

"After discussing matters with my attorney and the mediators, I have decided that since you wanted the divorce, you should file".

Any last minute mail to exchange? That could be your excuse for meeting. "I have some of your mail, you should start getting that forwarded to your new place, but you can pick up what is already here on __ between ___ and ___". If she has any more stuff, she should get that then too.