So I spoke with a couple of Mediators and another L. All of them agree that the pre-nup insulates me and that my W cannot obtain any of my assets and liabilities and visa versa. They all recommend that I let my W file and all I would have to do is hire an L toe review the paperwok. In essence "let her do the work".

The question is, do I lead and file anyway and that way I control the playing field? Or do I tell my W that she should file? And what am I controlling the playing field for anyway. My W will go dark until the day of the D