Thanks Guys, you don't realise how much your support helps
Robx, you called it so right, what you are saying is what I did last time, after I got my head together, and we got back together.
I am still pretty sure that nobody else is involved, she has not been going out that much, just the once and she went in her work clothes, hardly making an effort for somebody else?
Last time she told me it was somebody to talk to, I wasn't there for her and this guy was, an old friend?, seems the same script for most of us on here, anyway I totally detached, she went on holiday with the kids for a week, and when she came back told me she had missed me and wanted to make it work, it did but then it slipped again, I think she is scared that this will happen again this time?
I'm going to start and get on with my life, I get loads of invites to various functions through work, but never go, ususally I cannot be bothered, but no more, I'm going to make an effort and start to get a life, my kids are my kids, I don't want to lose my wife, but if I do, I do, I cannot control that.
