Welcome home

[BeingMe]

Well, I hope things have improved for you. Have you moved to Canada now? I have just read through your sitch, and it is painful for a serviceman to come back to all this stress. There are some here whose husbands have come back and then left them after a long time of keeping the home fires burning, as it were. So, it seems to go both ways.

For me, porno was a big issue, especially since it kept my H away. It also changed the kind of s*x he wanted ... rough, no romance, not really making love. So, I slowly got put off, and he got offended because he thought he wasn't doing a good job (which he wasn't ... duh). Then he had an EA, and that put the spoke in the wheels. Long story, but that's what I feel about a H looking at porn. To me, it is cheating.

Take care.