What a jacka$$! Sorry, I know he's the father of your daughter, but really ... what the dickens is he thinking. Obviously, nothing but himself. Perhaps, it's time to show your contempt for him, and show him what his type of communication feels like. Your D should just tell him that she will not pass on any messages, and if he doesn't communicate with you and things get muddled, then it's his problem. As long as this doesn't mess with your routine, of course.
Omigosh! It's bad enough dealing with one's family being broken, but then to have the WAS acting like a spoiled brat. Just too much. And, D is feeling it.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim