My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

Thankyou for stopping by...the h's moms a nurse also and she has said in the past that he's always shown some bipolar tendencies....I do believe he is just not in a very good place right now in his life with himself. I don't think I am a perfect wife...but I'm certainly not a miserable person that is to blame for all of his problems. Actually he doesn't really blame me for his problems, but he doesn't think I'm helping is more like it. I'm to good for him is how he puts it. But then when he is trying to do something and not getting it done, it is my fault- somehow. Not quite sure how but it is.

I do think the relationship with ow is very toxic and an addiction. We put our phones together on the same plan just before he left...AGAIN. I looked over his bills for jan- July. His bills averaged about 90 pages--- a MONTH. Yes 90 pages a month. Are you kidding? I would say 95% of it was with the ow. Now I know why he didn't pass the class he was taking online. His fingers were to busy typing away on his phone. The ow went back to school in July so the amount of contact seemed to go down some. She goes back to school again here at the end of sept again. Hope he can cope with less contact.