Is it possible to cycle through stages 1, 2 & 3? Or is it only linear?

I have come across the squirrel analogy... I think here on your thread.

I am trying to get my head around how you try attract the squirrel without "hoping" to attract it?

Time, join in!

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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