Oh.....and I forgot to say.......don't think the XH that I saw this evening would be capable of maintaining any kind of serious romantic R with a new OW. He is too absent-minded and pre-occupied with his mother's illness and R with BMF.....and with the kind of knee and low back pain he is having, the options for $ex are pretty limited (based on our experience before and after H/XH's knee arthroscopy). He acted like he thought he could share some vulnerability with me (when he opened up about BMF).
