Okay, today my W's check should have been deposited. It wasn't. Sent email asking what was up and she said that there was some kind of transfer screw up. (LOL I did laugh in real life) I knew something was up. The other day she talked about "Rent" and moving out of where she's at. Told her we're still financially together until Divorce and asked if she was going to deposit the money into our joint? She said "Yes, after work today".
Well, no go. She's still lying and I think her and her partner are moving in together. No proof, but I'm not an idiot and realize that this is "script". I postponed L appointment because I'm Ill and wish to gather more information before I see him.
I'm not mad, but I sense fear and craziness right now from her. She needs a message sent to her that I will not be disrespected and that she is not playing fair. How do I use this to my advantage? Do I pursue real Divorce or just focus on Mediation and a written 50/50? I played fair, but she is now doing some weird financial things. I haven't done anything other than try to treat her with respect and asked her to return this favor, this act today is against our verbal agreement(Her word doesn't mean crap) and now I'm questioning how hard I should hit her.
My thought, stall the divorce. Make her come up with L and make this something she doesn't forget. I truly believe she is in LaLa land and needs to wake up. I DO NOT want to be vindictive, but something has got to give here.
