Hmmm.... Looks like I could be right about H and this crisis setting him back. We were invited somewhere for Thanksgiving and H said that was "so far ahead for us" and "he is not ready to commit to going," but said I should go ahead and do so because the people that invited us are like family to me.
What the heck??? Like I would make Thanksgiving plans without him if we are supposed to be a family????
I didn't say much in response. This was all by email, btw. I had forwarded him the email from the friend. I simply replied that I was not saying I wanted to go but that I was afraid of hurting their feelings.
Then he comes home acting like the same ole same ole.
I have not said anything to him at this point because I haven't decided what to say or how to say it.
