Your W is projecting her own shortcomings on you. It is like when I exposed my W's affair. She was frothing like a rabid female dog at me, but it was all because of her poor choices.

The only way you get through this in a timely manner is to have your L get the ball moving faster. Your negotiations with your W are futile as she believes she will have the upper hand on you always.

She sounds like a spoiled brat.

You are a good father and man with high morals and dont deserve this "guy on a yoyo" crap she pulls with you.