I found out yesterday they did sleep together in August when he went back to our hometown. Today I found out that the day my grandmom died and I drove back to our hometown, OW drove down here and they got a hotel nearby.

I think it's over. My plan is to drive back next week and secure an apartment for us. I'll have to contact some lawyers to make sure I do what I have to given we are moving back across state lines so he doesn't claim abandonment or any of that crap.


Me 32 H 32
Ds 3.5 and 1.5
M 5 years, T 14 years
EA/Bomb: 7/1/10
PA revealed: 9/14/10
Legally separated: 10/01/10