I am lost as to what i should do anymore. Briefly here is my storey. My wife and i were best friends in highschool, then we became highschool sweethearts, when i went to college we went our separate ways. She had 2 children in this time. obe day we happened to bump into each other and we just picked up where we left off.
We have been through a lot together in the last 10 years, she had cancer, we lost a baby because of it, we had 2 children after the doctors said it wasnt possible. We have had our home sink on us (literally), and we have been through a bankruptzy. We made it all the way through this mess of life on my income alone as she was a stay at home mom. when our last child started school she got a job.
all seemed weel, she worked in the morning and picked our daughter up from school at lunch and they had girl time. well the next year daughter was full day of school, wife kept coming home later and later. She went on a girls trip to a local amusement park. Her brother told me she was with a male coworker from work. I talked to her and she assured me they were just friends. this behaviour went on for a couple of months, i was checking her cell phone and we she kept telling me it wasw harmless, they were just friends.
Well we all know what happened, it was an affair. She left, i have a signed separation agreement giving me the house and the 4 children, 2 mine and 2 heres. To make it even better, her brother lives with me, and her mother has a 1 bedroom apartment in my basement. She has walked away from her entire family including her grandmother.
I have tried everything to get her to come home. Nothing has worked. She moved right into this guys home, she hasnt paid child support, she has creditors calling constantly, she is boring money from family she hasnt talked to in years. Now she has taken my 2 youngest and spent the weekend with them at her boyfriends house. I dont want that scum bag anywhere near my children.
I have tried everything i can thin of. If anyone has any advise to help me stop my marriage from becoming another divorce statistic, please share. I do love my wife, but i have no options left. The paperwork is ready to file with the lawyers, i just cant seem to give the go ahead to do so. Please help
