I agree whole heartedly with pearlharbr!!! Remember you told me that your H admired the OW because she showed strength and courage in her sitch. You are allowing your H to walk all over you. Remember, you have the power! You have a better more prominent position and you make more $$ than he does. Set-up the custody schedule and don't allow him to come and go as he pleases. You are not making yourself more attracted to him! Show your strength and power!! Coach finally had to show me the way. I see now. Please do this for you and your kids. Or I will have to come to France and jerk your H by his nose and give him a what for!
