Have the L who is handling the D go over the financial stuff you put together as well as your original settlement agreement. Typically, a D attorney handles the financial settlement, custody and divorce all at the same time. I think that you have an opportunity to get a better deal than you currently have. Your H wants to D really, really bad so use that to your advantage.
Secondly, you need to consider that your H just may bring OW to the school Open House. If there is a way to do it in shifts, suggest that you go at one time and he go at the other. I just don't want you to be blindsided at school. Think about how you might handle it if it happened. You need to set boundries with him before Monday so you both know what to expect.
