Well you are a better man than I am. I could not have handled that. Thank God my Son is grown and she lives on the other side of town. I will admit that there was a time when I would drive by her (my Son's) house during the separation. Not healthy.
I think I am way past that now.

You did the right thing showing restraint. Just concentrate on your kids. They should be all you need to keep you grounded until your life stabalizes into something more normal and healthier.

Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me