I appreciate your input HT. I hear the anger & hurt in Brandon's voice and just when I thought I had put most of it behind me - it up and bites me in the butt again. Because it always hurts us more when our kids are hurting.

I really wonder what is up with him with his talk of wills and dying and that SHE would be the one who would call the kids. Heck - Ash has talked to her on the phone - asking for her dad. Because SHE answers the phone every single time. So Ash has no choice.

Thank God my kids have each other to talk to about it. Because I really don't feel this is something I want to advise them on. It's between them and him.

Barb