Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

I do need to set boundaries with H. I am still struggling with the whole not wanting to make H mad concept.

He knows I don't want to hear anything about OW but he persists because he thinks that if he hurts me enough I will stop loving him and give him a divorce. Sorry, but my heart doesn't work that way. DS originally had an evening appointment for tomorrow that had to be rescheduled by the doctor. Had she not rescheduled it I would have refused his request but all I have planned is a PTA meeting which actually goes smoother without DS there.

I will have all the papers this weekend and no kid running amok so I'm hoping to get it all sorted out this weekend. I honestly didn't pay attention to the court papers and missed the part that said I had to submit receipts to him the same month the expense occurred. Until this past spring when it all blew to hell H was pretty good about paying me. Not all the money he owes is for DS, most of it is car insurance. But I'm sure that will change once I get all the co-pays I never charged him for tallied up.

I was hoping that by not pressuring him for money and being agreeable to his demands was what would make him want to come back to me. That was long before I found this message board.