I have often wondered what W would miss if anything about me as all of her needes are being met by the OM. I found one. D5 has again started hockey last week 6:30am every Saturday morning. I was the one who would get up and do it all. W weekend with the girls next and she e-mailed me asking if I would be there to dress D5 and put her skates on. My shot gun reaction before thinking about it is to message her back and say. “I will be there at some point in time but not that early”. Your (W) capable of the task.
W has the luxwey of leaving D8 at her parents home where W lives and only dealing with one child. I will have to get both girls up at 6:00am on my weekend and make my way to the rink.
W made her bed it is time for her to sleep in it. It is so sad that the only people who will be effected are the girls.
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IMO, you need to have a boundary about this very thing (dropping the girls off) and you need to know how to enforce a consequense for W if she doesn't respect this boundary. Think about it and what she could face that would not be desirable for her, if she did not respect boundary.
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I can almost assure you that your W is saying things to D8 that is very negative about you and discouraging D's being at your place.
No contact from me and absolutly no support..non.
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Think about it and what she could face that would not be desirable for her, if she did not respect boundary.
Perhaps this a a good boundary if she chooses to play this game.
