Well here I am now. Moved over from DBD

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I think you guys are right.

But I have a vested interest in her right now as she owes me some money and she is driving my truck to work. She is in bad shape financially and without transportation she could lose the only thing she has left...her job. I feel like I must help her. It's just the right thing to do.

Except for the whole thing with her being separated and wanting to marry a sugar daddy, we get along well and she is very loving. A total 180 from my XW in almost every way.

I only worry sometimes how much of her affection and love comes from her needing to be rescued financially etc.

I think I will give it another month. She is supposed to get her car back at the end of this September.

Man I hate dating. Just wish I could find somebody like her but who I did not have to rescue. My plan is to help her learn how to help herself. She just needs to take the reign. If she can't do that then I will have to have a different type of "talk". I don't look forward to that.