CD Bear, keep posting, even if you are moving on. It helps to read how others are handling the process. I found Timeheal's journey very interesting an enlightening for this reason (and now they are dating again!). How are you actually feeling about her these days? "Disgusting" is how I view what happened to my M, but I prefer not to dwell on it 8 months later if I can help it. Yes, I think the worst is behind you, and me too. My thoughts are with you.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369